Fall in Love with you ~~~

You do not fall in love for the given things by him that you desire , but for the intrinsic moments that he touches your heart, while his heart and yours emerge in one. 

當你愛上了他，不會是因為他給予了你所渴望的東西，而是因為他觸動了你的心，他與你的心結合成唯一。

• Exactly , like Tango. As a result, if someone did not fall in love , should one encounter many obstacles in the relationship will be inevitable , since their hearts have never emerged as one.

  
  
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  Frank J. Howard Although men experience similarly, it seems women are more easily able to enter such a mind-state. Interesting in that light that the female form is taught to be more conducive to tantric practice (although clearly men can also attain.)
•  Thank you. Mr. Frank J. Howard. I do believe in Tantric teaching that one processes both female and male qualities. A male appearance may be more conducive in other understanding the true nature of awareness, whereas in this area stated as above may appear to be more subtle ~