A Woman's Soul Searching : since 2012 : 2019

Friday, December 6, 2019

The most beautiful Blue is here !!

Life on the ship !!

Where is The most artistic city in Mediterranean ~

💕在翡冷翠待了兩天，

來回走在小小的石頭道上，

好像走進 Medici 家族的興盛，

Michelangelo 為藝術而生的情景⋯⋯

這是一個小巧美麗，

大氣而細緻的古城，

傍晚我們在一個小教堂內聆聽Opera Love Duet ,

第二次造訪，

還是很愛～～～

很文青很藝術！

Florence , the birth city of Renaissance, of Medici , Da Vinci and Michelangelo, of art and science , of the revitalizing of the western civilization, where I don’t mind visiting again and again ~~

We also visited the 3 Star Michelin Italian Restaurant Monte-Carlo in Monaco, enchanted with all the luxury and delights the City offered !!

Friday, October 4, 2019

The Ring ~~

Once she was enchanted by all the fantasies, romance, and purity ...Perhaps that is the only thing should be cherished in life ...
On top of Expanding the Cosmo Kingdom....

精靈公主的特權!

魔戒裡的精靈...清清純純的不染...
有絕對的精神潔僻, 絕對的身體潔僻...
天堂是我的名字...清清純純的不染...

Monday, August 19, 2019

Where is the Most Exotic Summer Fun for Westerners in Taipei ?

🍎 《Summer Fun 》：

亭臺樓閣，堂榭廊橋，
湖山剪影，移步換景，
迥繞之間，處處充滿驚喜！

離台北一小時左右的車程，
來到了當年的私人庭苑，
柴契爾夫人及戈巴契夫
皆曾為王惕吾董事長的上賓，
很溫馨，很愜意，
很東方，很中國！💕💕

南園 Nan Garden

Wednesday, June 19, 2019

How are we different from Animals ??

❤️ 《午后的時光》

對於每日新聞有感⋯😱

「集體霸凌」也不是現代人獨有，
戰國時代起，
合縱連橫，
清未的八國聯軍，
還有⋯⋯⋯
縮小到極小的社會，
台灣，台北，
也有，
很多很多⋯⋯！

War and Peace

Afternoon Teatime ~~

War comes in different forms,
military war, trade war, technology war, gender war, social class war, love affair war ....!

As people strive to obtain an ultimate equality of everything , the war will never end , since no one is born equal, in terms of gender , race , heights. weight, appearance , cognitive ability, physical capacity, social wealth ...... !

As long as people attempt to uphold their own welfare, and advance their well-beings , by exploiting others ,other community and other countries ,
War will never end , and suffering will be inevitable !!

If World peace can be obtained , lion 🦁 will eat grass and plant for survival , and eternity prevailed !!

If you want to eliminate suffering, you must generate awareness !

Be aware of your thoughts, feelings, emotions, so that they do not obstruct a true path of developing goals of wellbeing toward mankind, while human realm maybe one step above animal realm, we are no difference in vivaciously and violently competing and slaughtering each other , I am contemplating , what do we differ from animals ? ...

We can think , we can dream , we love , romantic love , family love, community love , country love, humanity love , love for all beings ...? But animals have limited ability to love .... ?

Should we be hoping or sadden .. I wonder ....❤️

Photo is from " War and Peace" !

Wednesday, April 17, 2019

How to save yourself from a suffering relationship ??

Book Club Book in March

In our lives, especially in close relationships, we sometimes encounter emotional difficulties of feeling unnecessary guilty, irresponsible or ashamed, accused by the other party, if their demands are not to be complied. When this situation occurs, the person who made the demands and the threats was exercising "Emotional Blackmail", which term was first introduced by Dr. Suan Forward in 1998.

The blackmailer always plays the role of an initiative "manipulator" in the relationship, who would threaten to end the relationship, to sabotage the wealth or reputation of the other person, to self-suffer, to tantalize future promises! In Dr. Forward's book, she teaches us how to resolve the suffering from trapping ourselves into this dark abyss, while explores many case studies and real circumstances. I personally highly recommend reading this original book by Dr. Forward, since there are several similar books published afterward.

There are 4 Stages to resolve these psychological sufferings:

1 Recognizing the blackmailer
2 Clear the FOG
3 Recognizing self-worth and goal. Make a contract with yourself!
4 Communication Strategies

The following article summarizes the contents of this book in a distinct style that may interest you :

https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/emotional-blackmail/

Friday, March 29, 2019

One of the best Italian Restaurant in Taipei ~~

❤️❤️感謝主人的熱情招待，
為大家特製的料理及好酒，
度過一個難忘的夜晚！ At Tutto Bello !

It was a mesmerizing evening with excellent burgundy wines , customized menu , and more importantly , lovely friends !!

The Spanish Iberico Pork was the best of all !!

Creamy, Mineral Aroma, Long Lasting ~~ Batard Montrachet 2002

Lobster and King Crab Consomme !!

Iberico Pork !!!

Raspberry Peach ~~~ !!

2019 Spring Fashion Show ~~

Blumarine Fashion Show ~~

A Rising Star is Born ~~ Daniil Trifonov

❤️今夜在「皇帝鋼琴協奏曲」及柴可夫斯基第五號的楽聲中醒來 !!
👏👏👏😍😍😍好像只有在音樂會時才能全神專注～～～～！

❤️Daniil Trifonov, 28, Russian concert pianist, a Tchaikovsky and Chopin Prize Winner , performed a stunning and fierce yet romantic and gentle Beethoven 5th piano concerto “Emperor” , with the Cleveland Orchestra conducted by Franz Welsermost !!

Nobody actually performed this fast tempo as I recall on the 1st and 3rd movement ! As stunning as he expressed, I wish there were more subtle details of accented rhythm , crescendo, and brilliance among the fast stream of notes ! On the contrary , Danial Trifonov took an unusually slow tempo on the 2nd movement, celestially imaginative, almost too sweet and pure ; however, this contrast had made his performances in a way dynamic but different from other performers .

Nevertheless, I like his performance very much especially the Encore piece, Beethoven Sonata op31#3 , Bravo !! 👏👏👏

The Cleveland orchestra , after its flamboyant Tchaikovsky, especially the impeccable string section , indulged the audience with two Chinese influenced piece , one by J Strauss , and the other by Xiaong Ang Yi . 😍😍

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